important softskills

important #softskills

<b><u>social connection</u></b> is more helpful to your daily life than understanding the truth of a particular fact or idea

• <b><u>understanding the truth of a situation</u></b> is important

+ pragmatic, better outcomes resulting from better decisions

• <b><u>being part of a tribe</u></b> is also important

+ better treatment from one's peers

facts don't change our minds, <b><u>friendship does</u></b>

• the most frequent learning occurs from people <b><u>who are nearby spectrum</u></b>
• curious, try to understand them

<b><u>be kind first</u></b>, be right later

• the goal is to connect with the other side, work with them
• argue to win is to break down the reality of the person